Personal Happiness Assessment

Happiness test

Question: How happy are you?
Instruction:  For each question, select the answer that applies most accurately to you.
1. How do you feel about life?
Life is good. I have almost everything I want and have the ability to work for the things I need.
Life is ok. There is no major problem, but I don’t feel upbeat either.
Everything is not right. I wish I can get out of this mess quick!
Answer:

2. How often do you keep in touch with friends and families?
Regularly
When they contact me
Hardly ever
Answer:

3. What do you do when you are faced with a difficult problem?
I try to look at it from different angles to find the best solution.
I try to do the minimum to get rid of the problem.
Problem? What problem?
Answer:

4. How often do you exercise to keep fit?
Regularly.
Once in a while.
Hardly ever.

Answer:

5. Do you have a 5-year plan, yearly goal, quarterly quota and daily task list?
Yes, and I refer to it regularly.
Yes, but I don’t remember what it is.
No, I do not believe in planning ahead.
Answer:

6. You are looking for a job, and your skills match about 50% of the requirement. You are invited to an interview. How do you feel about your chances?
I am quite sure I will get the job if I put my best foot forward.
I will just attend the interview but be prepared that I may not be selected.
I don’t think my chances are high. Perhaps I should just skip the interview.
Answer:

7. A friend has recently lost his job and decided to start his own business. He came to you for advice because you are a successful entrepreneur. What would you do?
Provide all the help you can so that your friend can start a business and be successful as soon as possible.
Answer only the questions he asked. You don’t feel obliged to provide too much information.
Decline the request for help. You do not need another competitor.
Answer:

8. Do you like to acquire new knowledge, for example, learning to cook or a new language?
Yes, I enjoy learning new things.
Depends on whether it makes me money.
No, I don’t have the energy to learn more.
Answer:

9. You have received a promotion. How do you feel?

I feel very happy, honored and grateful. I will accept the greater responsibility that comes with the new job.
The increase in pay is good, but I fear the increased responsibilities will weigh me down.
It’s about time. Just a natural progression in my career.
Answer:

10. When life gets hectic, what do you do?
Stay calm, focus and be mindful about what’s going on and how to cope.
React to problems as they surface, without thinking much.
Shut down and do not talk to anyone.
Answer:

Compute your answers:
 Number of A’s

 Number of B’s

 Number of C’s

Which answer do you have the highest count?
A: Life is good – You are among the happiest among the people around you. Enjoy, keep it up, and help others!
B: Feeling indifferent – You are not exactly unhappy, but at the back of your mind you know you could do better.
C: It can only get better – You are not happy with your current circumstance. You feel that you deserve much better and it is about time you take action to claim your happiness!

What do you think are the obstacles in your path to achieving happiness?

In this section, we examine the possible obstacles to the path of happiness. The various factors are presented in the form of questions. It may not be possible to answer all of them at one go, as you might not have considered these questions before. Provide an answer if you have them, and a solution if you can. You may wish to consult a coach if you are in need of a solution.
Do you know what you actually want or need to be happy?Answer:Solution:
Do you place priority on your own happiness? (For example, do you make time for yourself to do what you enjoy?)Answer:Solution:
Do you think someone else is to be blamed for your unhappiness? (For example, parents, bosses, colleagues, the economy etc.)Answer:Solution:
Is your effort in achieving happiness actually preventing you from achieving it? (For example, trying to make more money because it can buy the things that will make you happy, but ignoring family and personal health in the process).Answer:Solution:
Do you think the happiness gurus are happier than ‘the rest of us’? (They are rich and famous for telling people how to be happy, so it is easier for them to be happy.) Answer:Solution:
Are there inaccurate beliefs about happiness that are ruling our lives? (For example, people are selfish and cannot be trusted. You can rely only on yourself.)Answer:Solution:
Do you put off important decisions or actions? (For example, having a difficult conversation, sorting out your finances etc.)Answer:Solution:
Do you have fears that if you appear happier than your peers, your will be rejected? (For example, you join in the gossip and complaint sessions, just to fit in).Answer:Solution:
Do you think these are valid obstacles? If they are, then it is worth taking a closer look and finding some ways to address them.

“I cursed the fact I had no shoes until I saw the man who had no feet.” Persian proverb
What actions would you take to achieve happiness?

Be kind to yourself
The most important step towards achieving happiness is to be kind to yourself. Much of our unhappiness stems from being too critical on ourselves. Have you ever had thoughts that you are not good enough for a job, or too slow in reacting to challenges, or not witty in responding to arguments, or not making the best decision to close an important deal etc.? Self-criticism is a defensive mechanism to keep us alert and safe, but an overdose brings misery. Be aware of the chatter going through your mind, and eliminate negative self-talk. You wouldn’t criticise a child so harshly, would you? So you should be kind to yourself too.
Do you hear any negative self-talk going on in your mind?

What does it say?

Can you replace it with positive and constructive ideas?
Appreciation and gratitude
Being appreciative of events and people calms the mind, and provide a fresh view to see things from a different angle.
Have a daily list of 3 items to be grateful for, and you will find more to be grateful for everyday.

Clarify your values
When you live by you values, there will be no ambiguity and conflict, and therefore greater peace of mind.
What are your values in these areas?
Work
Relationship
personal development
leisure
finance
family
social network
community
For example, if you place great value on family, and believe that family comes first, you will be happier with work decisions that allow you to be with your family more often.

Keep a journal of achievements
No matter how happy and confident we are, there will always be moments when we experience unexpected setbacks. Keep a journal of achievements and browse through them during such times. It will re-affirm your belief in yourself, and lift your spirit.

Make your own happiness list
This is the fun part. Many people keep a list of all the little things that makes them happy, and re-visits the list for inspirations when they are down. Start with simple ideas like a walk in the park, eating ice-cream, helping the elderly neighbour with grocery shopping etc. Include bigger goals like travels to favourite locations, hosting a dinner party etc.
How many items do you have on your list? If you list just 3 a day, it will be a long list of 1095 in a year!
What is the significance of this?
Firstly, it is not hard to find happiness in little things.
Secondly, the longer the list, the more reasons you have to be happy.
Thirdly, with consistent effort, the number of items in the list can exceed 1000 in a year.
Lastly, when listing happy items becomes a habit, the happy mindset will look for more happy items easily.
Start and keep growing the list. Share your list with others on social media platforms so that it can help others.

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